In Memory

In Memory of Chalmers' Members and Adherents

THAYER, Irene Bernice (nee Bish) - Passed away suddenly at home in London on Sunday, March 31, 2019 in her 90th year. Born in Stratford on December 3, 1929 to Edna and William Bish, she is survived by her devoted and loving daughter Linda (Elliott), beloved grandchildren Adam and Emma, dear sister Edith (Spence) Graham, sister-in-law Irene Bish and many nieces and nephews. Irene is predeceased by her husband of 60 years, William "Bill" Thayer, her brothers Cecil, Leonard, Ivan, Harold and Frank Bish, her sister-in-law Audrey (Roy) Ross, and brother-in-law Ken Thayer. Irene worked as a secretary and executive assistant for several companies over the course of her long career. She held many offices in the Independent Order of Foresters and was a member for over 50 year. She personified the "great generation," being devoted to her family, faith, work and community. Irene will be remembered for her kind and gentle soul, her generosity, warmth and strength. She was a bright light in the world, and a blessing to all who loved her. Friends will be received by the family on Friday, April 5, 2019 from 2:00-4:00 PM, and 7:00-8:00 PM at FOREST LAWN FUNERAL HOME, 1997 Dundas St. E. (at Wavell). The funeral service will be conducted in the chapel on Saturday, April 6, 2019 at 11:00 AM. Interment in Forest Lawn Cemetery, London. A special thanks to the staff at Inspirit Residences for their warmth and support. As an expression of sympathy, memorial donations may be made to Chalmers Presbyterian Church or to a charity of your choice. Online condolences may be made at www.forestlawnmemorial.ca

DOSKAS, Doris May - Passed away peacefully at Earl's Court Village on Friday November 16, 2018, in her 93rd year. Beloved wife of the late John Doskas. Loving mother of Trevor Tyson (Julie), Warren Tyson, and Karen (Doug) James. Proud grandmother of Adam, Michelle, Mark, and Nicole, Alyssa, and Ethan. Cherished sister to her late brothers, Douglas (Ann) Godlington and Kenneth (Terri) Godlington. The family would like to express their sincere appreciation to her nurses, PSW's, staff and Dr. Wong at Earl's Court Village for the great care they gave to Doris. She lived a full life. As the world around her changed, she made a place for herself in it on her terms. She was spirited. She loved to talk with people and share insights and had a smile that would light up the room. She had a simple wisdom and an honest heart. Private family service at HARRIS FUNERAL HOME , followed by interment at Pond Mill’s Cemetery. A Celebration of Life will be held at a later date for Doris. Donations can be made to Chalmers Presbyterian Church www.chalmerslondon.com/give-on-line.html

SMITH, Sylvia Jean - Now singing with the angels, her voice no longer silenced... Sylvia passed away on Thursday, October 25, 2018 in her 86th year. Predeceased by her beloved husband Tom. Lovingly remembered by her children Sharen (Murray), Linda (John) and Larry (Karen). Treasured Grandma to 7 Grandchildren and 5 Great Grandchildren. Caring sister of Lenore (Ed). A special thank you to the staff at Wildwood Care Centre. A memorial service will take place at the Metropolitan United Church, 468 Wellington Street, London on Sunday, October 28, 2018 at 2pm. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer Society of London. Arrangements entrusted to CREMATION LONDON & MIDDLESEX , 519-858-2467.

COY, Beverley Ann - It is with profound sadness that the family announces the passing of Beverley Coy on Tuesday, October 2, 2018 at St. Joseph’s Hospital, London in her 67th year. Beloved wife of John Coy. Cherished mother of Heather (Greg) Coy-Robinson and Mark (Sarah) Coy. Proud grandmother of Ava, Ashley and Etta. Loving daughter of Joan and Ray Howse. Dear sister to Judy (Bruce) Horsley and Joanne (Bill) Burns. She will be fondly remembered by her niece and nephew. Friends will be received by the family from 6:00 - 8:00 p.m. on Friday, October 5, 2018 at Forest Lawn Funeral Home, 1997 Dundas Street East (at Wavell), London. The funeral service will be held in the chapel on Saturday, October 6, 2018 at 11:00 a.m. with visitation 1 hour prior. There will be a private family interment in Forest Lawn Cemetery at a later date. As an expression of sympathy, memorial donations may be made to May Court Club of London. Online condolences accepted at www.forestlawnmemorial.ca

WRIGHT, Peter Allen - Passed peacefully at his residence, on Wednesday, September 26, 2018, in his 87thyear. Beloved husband of the late Emily Elizabeth Wright (2009). Cherished father of Brian, David (Brynn), Paul (Rasa), and Andrew (Cathy). Dear grandfather to Katelyn, Amanda and Leah. Predeceased by his brother Richard Wright, and sister Pearl Martin. Survived by his sister-in-law Hilda Wright. Missed by many nieces, nephews, and friends. A visitation will be held on Tuesday, October 2, 2018 from 7:00 – 9:00 p.m. at WESTVIEW FUNERAL CHAPEL, 709 Wonderland Road North, London, where the funeral service will be conducted on Wednesday, October 3, 2018 at 11:00 a.m., with another visitation one hour prior. Interment at Woodland Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, those wishing to make a donation in memory of Peter are asked to consider Scouts Canada or a charity of their choice.

BAKELAAR, Shirley Adelaide - Peacefully, at the Village of Glendale Crossing on Sunday, May 20, 2018, Shirley Adelaide Bakelaar passed away in her 88th year. Beloved wife of the late Peter Leonard Bakelaar. Cherished mother of Brenda Bakelaar of London. Also survived by her sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law Neil Bakelaar of Listowel, John Bakelaar and his wife Paulette of Dorchester, Janet Bakelaar of Hudsonville, Michigan and her cousins Fran McLean of Goderich, Fay and Bob Goodwin of Niagara-on-the-Lake, David and Patti Brereton of Goderich and survived by many nieces and nephews. Predeceased by her sister-in-law Alice Bakelaar and Bill McLean. Friends will be received by the family one-hour prior (10-11 am) to the funeral service, being held at Chalmers Presbyterian Church, 342 Pond Mills Road, London, ON N5Z 3X5, on Friday, May 25, 2018 at 11 am with Reverend John Bannerman officiating. Interment in Woodland Cemetery, London. As an expression of sympathy, donations may be made to The McCormick Dementia Services c/o McCormick Care Foundation, 2022 Kains Road, London, ON, N6K 0A8, Alzheimer Society of London & Middlesex, 435 Windermere Road, London, ON N5X 2T1, Chalmers Presbyterian Church - Memorial Fund. Arrangements entrusted with A. Millard George Funeral Home, 519-433-5184. Online condolences, memories and photographs shared at www.amgfh.com

LEONARD, George - Peacefully with his best friend by his side, George passed away at 64yrs at LHSC Victoria Campus. He will forever remain in the hearts and memories of his wife of 41 years Cathie, his children Megan Leonard, Sean Leonard, and Lyle (Cheryl) Leonard, and by the lights of his life, his grand daughters, MacKenna and Colleen.George was pre-deceased by his parents Norton and Margaret Leonard and his brother Dwight Leonard. He will be sadly missed by many Cousins, Nieces and Nephews, and friends. A Celebration of George's Life will be held on Thursday May 24, 2018 at 1pm at Memorial Funeral Home. Visitation will be held on Wednesday May 23, 2018 from 5pm -8pm and for an hour prior to the service. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you make a donation to the Charity of your choice.

McHARDY- William David Martin “Scotty” of St. Thomas and formerly of Brampton, passed away at Sakura House Hospice in Woodstock, surrounded by his family, on Thursday, April 12, 2018 in his 89th year. Much loved by daughter Gail McHardy-Leitch (Donald Leitch); his son David McHardy; granddaughter Ailsa Leitch; sister Eileen Cameron (late Donnie); brother-in-law Fred Taylor (late Ann). Like family to Ollie and Rae Strong, Sarah and Orval Mashinter, Edna and Keith Richardson, Marlene and Jack McIntyre, late Ken and Lois Reid, and their families. Scotty was born in Scotland, son of the late Frank and Christina McHardy. He is predeceased by his wife Elizabeth “Bette” McHardy; and infant daughter Emily. Scotty was an avid gardener, an old time fiddler, and worked on the Avro Arrow and Canadarm. Visitation will be held at the Shawn Jackson Funeral Home 31 Elgin Street, St. Thomas (519-631-0570) on Sunday, April 15, 2018 from 2:00-4:00 and 6:00-8:00 pm, where the Memorial Service will be held in the chapel on Monday, April 16, 2018 at 2:30pm. If desired, donations to Space to Grow Campaign-Camp Kintail (Presbyterian Church) or Canadian Cancer Society would be appreciated. Personal condolences to the family at www.sjfh.ca

GASKIN, John (Johnny) - June 25, 1932 - January 3, 2018 Johnny and his family lived in Scotland and immigrated to Canada in 1966. Johnny is survived by his loving wife of 65 years, Maureen (nee Low); his children, Ken (Deb), John (Cindy predeceased), Teresa (Corey Burns) and David (Melanie); and his grandchildren, Fiona (Justin Guy), Caitlin (Mason Kinat), Robyn (Aaron Driscoll), Jaime (Sandy), Andrew (Romeo), Heather (Kelsy), Emily, Justine and Jillian; and his great grandchildren, Blake & Reid Guy and Charlie, Macy & Beckett Driscoll. Johnny was a beloved friend and relative to many, both in Canada and in Scotland. The service to commemorate Johnny is to be held Saturday, January 13, 2018 at 11 am at Chalmers Presbyterian Church, 342 Pond Mills Road in London, Ontario. A reception will follow the service. Interment will be postponed until Spring. Donations to the Canadian Mental Health Association would be appreciated and may be made at cmhamiddlesex.ca/donate13242666

BARFOOT, Dorothy Jean - Peacefully surrounded by her family on December 30, 2017, Dorothy went to be with her saviour. Dorothy was the loving wife of 66 years to Verne, Dorothy will be fondly missed by her children Gary (Bonnie), Jo-Anne (David) Turner and mother of the late Murray Barfoot (1978). Loved and dearly missed by Shawn Turner (Lori), Lia (Sean) Eglinton and her Great Grandchildren Cali, Mackenzie and Raina. Cremation has taken place. A celebration of Dorothy's life will be held on Saturday, January 6, 2018 at Chalmers Presbyterian Church, 342 Pond Mills Road. Visitation at 10:00am, service at 11:00am with a reception to follow after the service. In lieu of flowers, donations to Alzheimer Society London and Middlesex at www.alzheimerlondon.ca or Arthritis Society at www.arthritis.ca

SMELTZER, George Leonard - At Victoria Hospital, London, on Tuesday, October 10, 2017, George Leonard Smeltzer, surrounded by his loving family, passed peacefully in his 83rd year. Beloved husband of the late Patricia (Dowswell) Smeltzer (2014). Loving father of Laurie Patterson (James) of London, Michael Smeltzer (Angela) of Estevan, SK and Peter Smeltzer (Catherine) of London. Dear grandfather of Trevor Patterson of Vancouver, B.C. Isaac Smeltzer (Melissa) of Denver, CO, Megan Schick (Mason) of Weyburn, SK, Yakira Mukendi (Didi) of Kuwait, Larissa Smeltzer of Hamilton, Samantha, Lily and Danielle of London. Cherished great grandfather of Madisyn Joy and Emily Patricia Grace Schick. Dear brother of Betty Joiner (Leo), Doris Balfour (Bob), Lois Smeltzer and survived by his sister-in-law Wilma Smeltzer all of St. Thomas and brother-in-law Daniel Dowswell of Kalamazoo, MI. Also loved by several nieces and nephews. Predeceased by his brothers and sisters Ruth White, Mary Lunn, Hank Smeltzer, Douglas Smeltzer and Bonnie-Lynn Smeltzer. The family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to the Doctors and Staff of both Parkwood and Victoria Hospitals. Friends will be received by the family at the A. Millard George Funeral Home, 60 Ridout Street South, London on Friday, October 13, 2017 from 2-4 and 7-9 pm and on Saturday, October 14, 2017 from 9:30-10:30 am. The funeral service will take place in the funeral home chapel at 10:30 am. Interment in Mount Pleasant Cemetery, London. As an expression of sympathy, memorial donations may be made to the London Regional Cancer Program, 747 Base Line Road East, London, ON N6C 2R6 or the Heart & Stroke Foundation, 180-633 Colborne Street, London ON N6B 2V3. Online condolences, memories and photographs shared at www.amgfh.com

LADD, Ronald "Ron" Watson - Went home to be with The Lord on Monday morning in his 87th year. Loving husband for 64 years to Edith; dear father to Robert (Marilyn), Gregory (Mary) and Sharon (Thomas); grandfather to David, Steven, Carolyn, Jonathan, Rachel and Shannon. He will also be missed by his brother John (Ruth) and numerous friends. Ron is predeceased by his siblings Keith, Norm and Joyce. Family and friends will be received Thursday, October 12, 2017 from 2:00 - 4:00 PM and 6:00 - 8:00 PM at Forest Lawn Funeral Home, 1997 Dundas St. E. (at Wavell). A Funeral Service at Chalmers Presbyterian Church, 342 Pond Mills Rd will take place Friday, October 13, 2017 at 11:00 AM with interment to follow at Forest Lawn Memorial Gardens. In lieu of flowers donations in Ron’s memory can be made to Chalmers Presbyterian Church (Roof fund) or a charity of your choice.

MACKINNON, Mary "May" - Passed away at Peoplecare Oakcrossing on January 24, 2017 in her 93rd year. Loving mother of Donald (Karen), Douglas (Anne) and caring mother-in-law to Keith Duggan. Fondly remembered by her many grandchildren and great grandchildren. Predeceased by her loving husband Angus "Gus" MacKinnon and daughter Elizabeth. May will be missed by Shirley Hall and her other special friends and her family in Scotland. The family would like to thank the staff from Red Oak at Peoplecare Oakcrossing for their excellent care. Visitation will be held at Forest Lawn Funeral Home 1997 Dundas St. E. (at Wavell) Thursday January 26, 2017 from 12PM -1PM with a funeral service to follow in the chapel at1PM. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Canadian Diabetes Association. The Funeral Reception will be held at Chalmers Presbyterian Church, 342 Pond Mills Road, London, Ontario

WELDON, Marian - Peacefully at her home with her loving family by her side on Thursday, January 12, 2017, Marian Elizabeth (nee: Bradish) Weldon of London and formerly of Lambeth at the age of 91 years. Beloved wife for 38 years of the late John Weldon (1984). Loving mother of Linda Nichols, James Weldon, Kathleen Weldon, Joanne Weldon and Laura Weldon and her husband Craig Covington. Proud grandmother of 9 grandchildren and 10 great-grandchildren. Dear sister of Edith and her husband Willard Latimer. Loved by many nieces, nephews, cousins and friends. Predeceased by her brothers Robert and James Bradish and her sister Norma Blackman. Friends may visit at the MCFARLANE & ROBERTS FUNERAL HOME , 2240 Wharncliffe Road, South, Lambeth 519-652-2020 on Monday from 2-4 & 7-9 pm where the celebration of Marian’s life will be held on Tuesday, January 17, 2017 at 2:00 pm. Cremation with private interment White Oak Cemetery at a later date. Donations to the charity of choice gratefully acknowledged.

ELLIOT, Audrey Bernice "Bernie" - Peacefully with family by her side at University Hospital, London, on Tuesday, November 8, 2016, Bernie Elliot passed away in her 80th year. Beloved wife of John Douglas Elliot for 59 years. Dear mother of Kim Poser (Mike) and Karen Dutton (Dennis Shackelton). Cherished grandma of Lizzie and Abbey Poser. Sister of Judy Murray. Predeceased by her parents James Melvin and Marjorie Isabel Wilson (Dench). Missed by her niece and nephews. Bernie was a long-time member of Chalmers Presbyterian Church and the William Melville Spencer Chapter, IODE. Also she was very active in the Coventry Walk and RCR communities. Friends will be received by the family on Thursday, November 10, 2016 from 2:30-4:30 pm and 7-9 pm at the A. MILLARD GEORGE FUNERAL HOME , 60 Ridout Street South, London. The funeral service will take place on Friday, November 11, 2016 at 2:00 pm (visitation one hour prior) at Chalmers Presbyterian Church, 342 Pond Mills Road, London N5Z 3X5, with Reverend John Bannerman officiating. Interment in Pond Mills Cemetery, London. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations to the Chalmers Presbyterian Church Memorial Fund would be appreciated. Online condolences, memories and photographs may be shared at www.amgfh.com

KILBOURNE, Wilfrid "Wilf" - Suddenly, at home on Thursday, August 4, 2016, Wilf Kilbourne in his 83rd year. Devoted husband of Joyce (Brown) Kilbourne for 47 years. Loving father of Kari, Paul (Andrea). Super proud grandpa of Bryce and Cooper. Dear brother-in-law of Helen Bender (the late Murray), Judie Schramn, Paula Draper (Harvey), Jackie Starr (Robin), Bryan Hube, Janet Kilbourne, and Joan Brown. Also missed by his nieces and nephews. Predeceased by his parents Esther and Floyd Kilbourne, his brother Dick Kilbourne (2011) and by his brother-in-law George Brown. Wilf was an avid and proud golfer and enjoyed spending time with golfing buddies at West Haven. Friends will be received by the family from 3-5 pm on Monday, August 8, and Tuesday, August 9, 2016 from 10-11 am at the A. Millard George Funeral Home, 60 Ridout Street South, London.
The Celebration of Wilf's life will be held on Tuesday at 11 am. Interment in Woodland Cemetery, London. As an expression of sympathy, donations may be made to Heart & Stroke Foundation, 180-633 Colborne Street, London ON N6B 2V3.
Online condolences, memories and photographs shared at www.amgfh.com

DOSKAS, John - Passed away Wednesday March 23, 2016, after a brief stay at Victoria Hospital, London, with loved ones by his side at 85 years of age. John is survived by his loving wife of 53 years, Doris, his two sons, Trevor (Julie) and Warren Tyson, his daughter, Karen James (Doug), and his six grandchildren, Adam, Michelle, Mark and Nicole Tyson, Alyssa Tyson, and Ethan James. In addition to his parents, he was predeceased by two sisters, Teresa and Barbara Doskas, three brothers, Rene, Jim (Ileen) and Tom Doskas, and two brothers-in-law, Doug (Ann) and Ken Godlington. John had been in treatment for cancer that had returned after ten years in remission. Complications from a serious infection proved too much for his system. John was born on March 31, 1930 in Montreal, Quebec. He was one of six children born to James and Riene Doskas. John had a love and ingenious skill for tinkering, forever fixing or improving or inventing conveniences in the workplace and around the home. His laughter was always infectious. His humour was often mischievous. Delighting in making people laugh, he brought a playful spirit to almost everywhere he went. It was clear from his own hardy laugh that he loved to laugh, himself. If John was in the house, everyone knew it. A constant chorus of joyful tunes and made-up melodies accompanied him nearly every place he went, and in almost any project he engaged in. Cremation has taken place. A memorial will be planned in celebration of his life this spring or early summer. Expressions of sympathy and donations (Canadian Cancer Society) would be appreciated and may be made through LONDON CREMATION SERVICES (519) 672-0459 or online at www.londoncremation.com

MCFALLS, June "Carole" – It is with great sadness that our family shares the loss of JUNE "CAROLE" MCFALLS who passed away at home in Lethbridge, AB on Sunday March 13, 2016. Carole is survived by her three children: David (Linda) McFalls of Lethbridge, Mark (Christine) McFalls of Ottawa, and Carole Anne (Dean) Oikawa of Lethbridge. She also leaves to mourn her sister Margaret Heighton, three grandchildren, Lindsay McFalls (Dale Lawson), Justin McFalls (Malina 1 Bird), Samantha Vanderleek, and one great grandchild, Kayson-Dale Lawson, as well as many nieces and nephews who were very close to her heart. Carole was predeceased by her husband Richard, her sister Maureen Crowder, her brother David Elder, and her parents, Leslie and Margaret Elder. Carole was born on December 21, 1939 in Belfast, Northern Ireland and, along with her parents and siblings, immigrated to Canada in 1947. With A her father, the Reverend Leslie Elder officiating, Carole and Richard were married in 1960. They eventually settled in London, Ontario where they raised their family. In 1969, they began volunteering with the Children's Aid Society and, over the next 30 years, were Foster Parents to close to 200 infants and toddlers. This continued until 2001 when Richard's life was tragically taken as a result of a car accident. Carole, who was critically injured in the same accident, never fully recovered but stubbornly persevered and lived life fully until the time of her passing. Carole was a passionate Toronto Maple Leafs fan and spent many nights in front of the TV draped in her Leafs gear cheering them on. She loved to 'hate' the Canadiens, despite her husband being one of their biggest fans! Friends will be received by the family from 7-9 pm on Monday, March 21, 2016 at the A. MILLARD GEORGE FUNERAL HOME, 60 Ridout Street South, London. The Funeral will be conducted at the Chalmers Presbyterian Church, 342 Pond Mills Rd, London, on March 22, 2016 at 1 pm. Interment in Forest Lawn Memorial Gardens, London. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Lung Association, 1750 Courtwood Crescent Suite 300, Ottawa, ON K2C 2B5 or another charity of choice. Online condolences, memories and photographs shared at www.amgfh.com

Margaret Lister Dale (nee Hawke) - Margaret passed peacefully Friday, January 1, 2016 at the age of 87, with her family by her side. Beloved Wife of the late David Dale. Cherished Mother to Tom (Gwen Cameron) and Jane-Ann (Paul Hunter). Treasured Grandma to Adair, Shona and Mattryk. Devoted Sister to Alan Hawke. Local "cruize nights" members affectionately knew Margaret as Kiwi's Grandma. Cherished Aunt to numerous nieces, nephews and their families. Predeceased by parents Gordon and Jane Ann Hawke, brothers Robert, Gordon and Bruce Hawke, and sister-in-law and brother-in-law Clara and Don Stratford. Margaret worked as an accountant at Penman's Ltd before marrying David on October 6, 1962 and becoming a full-time Mother, Homemaker, and Volunteer. Many people benefitted from Margaret's gentle and kind efforts, including handicap-able children, nursing home residents, and many of the social programs at Chalmers Presbyterian Church. Sincere thanks to the caring staff of Dearness Home, Home Instead, Craigwiel Gardens, St. Elizabeth Homecare and Victoria Hospital. Please join us in celebrating Margaret's life on Thursday, January 7th from 2-4 & 6-8pm at Forest Lawn Funeral Home, 1997 Dundas Street E. (at Wavell) 519-455-9343 and on Friday, January 8th at Chalmers Presbyterian Church, 342 Pond Mills Road, London, from 2-3pm with a service immediately after. Donations gratefully appreciated to the Care & Share Program of Chalmers Presbyterian Church. Online condolences may be offered at www.forestlawnmemorial.ca

GEORGE, William (Bill) Gilbert – it is with great sadness the family announces the passing of George, William (Bill) Gilbert peacefully at Victoria Hospital on Thursday, December 24, 2015 in his 79th year. Beloved husband of Shirley,dear father of Linda George and Lezlie Donlan (Tim Churchill), loving Papa to Liam Donlan and Katie Donlan. Predeceased by his brothers Harold George and Carl George and sister Marie Graham. Uncle to Ann Marie Johnson and Chuck Graham. Bill was a letter carrier for 35 years. He was a volunteer at the London food bank and Salvation Army Kettle. Cremation has taken place. A celebration of life will be held Saturday, January 2nd, 2016 at Chalmers Presbyterian Church, 342 Pond Mills Road at Commissioners. Visitation 1:30pm – 2:30pm. Memorial Service 3:00p.m Reception to follow at the church immediately after the service. Donations can be made to the London Food Bank.

Bill served as an Elder at Chalmers from 1983 - 2010